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Thomas's avatar

thank you so much for this vulnerable post! love the introspection here about how perhaps your feelings of jealousy aren't so much about Nathan and Jane - or aren't entirely about Nathan and Jane - and more to do with messages you received yourself about your self-worth from your father. I hope you can process/treat your past and present self with compassion when reflecting on your father's anger (which sounds awful) and be curious about if the grasp toward externals was a consequence of that anger. also, I'm curious about when you say that "my parents are Asian immigrants, so they obviously freaked the fuck out." my mother sounds perhaps similar to your parents though my father, who was also an Asian immigrant, was very chill about academics and my life choices in general - so I think it's interesting when people (not saying you exclusively or specifically in this case) make assumptions about how Asian immigrants/Asian immigrant parents behave. such a great post! thanks for sharing

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Lovleen Kaur's avatar

This was amazing! I've been following your writing for a few weeks and I really enjoy the way you write and tell your story . This has inspired me to be more vulnerable in my own writing 😊😊

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